Dating in general is not the easiest task on the planet no matter how
easy it may seem. It takes the effort of both parties to make it worth thise try. When it is not happening the way it is supposed to, things go
wrong. The truth is, most of the time when we have issues when dating,
the signs would have been there earlier but we chose to overlook it.
This is because most people have the mentality that you can change the
person over a period of time. This is wrong. These article is to give
you an idea of the type of men to avoid before it gets too late.
1. The controlling kind: Sometimes, the controlling type of
men might not be the best people to date. It may look all rosy at the
beginning and you may try to overlook it, the signs that the guy you are
dating might appear to be controlling or let’s use the word, power
hungry. He always wants to be the one in charge of everything and not
even wanting to give you a chance to voice your own opinions, then you
might have to run from this one.
2. The anger management kind: I used anger-management because
that is exactly what he needs to calm himself down and be slow to anger.
Everyone knows how annoying women can be. We know that sometimes, it is
best to let the woman win and just avoid any further arguments.
Instead, he gets upset at every little thing you say. That relationship
will not work because he has a million and one days to put up with you.
If he can’t, let him step away and you move onto the next one.
3. The violent kind: Violence is the number one marriage wrecker.
If he ever tries to throw something at you, let alone, hit you, then he
is violent. Do not be deceived that he was overwhelmed with anger. No
reasonable person wants to hurt their loved ones. Especially for the
ladies who think their man hits them because he loves them, well one
day, he will kill you so run. Run as fast as you can before it’s too
late.
4. The nagging kind: There are so many men who nag and it’s very unattractive. Ladies, kindly avoid this type of men.
5. The malicious kind: Men in general are not supposed to have
this trait. This is another unattractive trait that men should never
display. If your man keeps malice with you, then I do not understand why
he is still in your life.
6. The negative kind: This type are very bad for our health.
You do not want anyone who has only negative comments about things all
the time. It is never about the positive things that he can do. You have
this great business idea and you are so excited to tell him but all he
does it asks you what happens if it doesn’t work. Always negative.
Anytime he does this, ask yourself why the other person who did it
succeeded, afterall, the individual does not have two heads. Say bye to
every form of negativity in your life.
7. The demeaning kind: This type always bring you down in
everything. They always make you feel like you are not good enough.
Nothing is ever good enough for him. This is called emotional violence.
It is even worse than physical violence because it makes you feel
worthless. If you think these traits are present in your man, dump him
to look for his kind.
8. The vain kind: Now, these type of men are more concerned
about how they look and what people think about them. They would
outshine you when both of you are attending an event together. A regular
guy would want the woman to be beautiful not really keeping in mind how
he might look. Don’t get it twisted; he would look nice too but these
are the selfish kinds who put themselves first before you. You don’t
really want to end up with this type of person.
9. The flirtatious kind: These are the types that love to flirt
with other women not paying mind if you are present or not. They always
love to be around the ladies and can also be described as the ladies’
man. A man should have eyes for just his girl when she is there. It is
disrespectful flirting with other ladies in the presence of your
girlfriend. These ones are up to no good. Just walk away!
10. The mama’s boys: There is nothing more unattractive than a man
who runs to his mother at every little thing that happens to them. These
ones cannot take decisions by himself. He is obviously not independent.
If you end up with these ones, their moms would be the people dictating
your relationship.
Although no one is perfect and there is no rule book in
relationships, but these are a few things you might want to avoid before
it’s too late...
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