Contrary to popular depiction of a sexually-aroused female, which entails ripped clothes and a ridiculous amount of dirty talk, the telltale signs of a horny girl are sometimes subtle and not readily recognizable to the rest of the observing world.
Remembering the playboy aphorism that “a horny girl is a good girl,” here are several behaviors displayed by a woman in the heat of passion for you to use to your advantage.
8 signs she’s feeling horny around you
Of course, we’re all aware of the physical signs of female horniness like getting wet down under and perky nipples even if she’s not cold. But in a casual setting, you can’t just approach her and feel her undies and peek through her blouse to check unless you’re asking for a sexual harassment case and a restraining order.
Instead, learn to detect her subtleties when she’s letting you know that she wants you to explore the bed sheets with you. Here we discuss the ways in which she subtly lets you know that she’s game.
#1 She looks at you like a piece of well-done steak – otherwise known as “eye sex” or “eye f*cking,” this type of flirting is her long range strategy to let you know that she’s horny, or at least she’s willing to let you make a move on her.
You will notice that she will keep stealing seductive glances at you, wanting you to look back. And when you do, she’ll let herself get caught, blush, and she’ll then flash her “come hither” smile topped with the occasional lip bite. When this happens, don’t be an idiot. Get up, approach, and talk to her.
#2 She’s flirtier than usual – okay, in this case we assume that you’ve established at least a neutral type of relationship with the said girl. You do the usual things that friends or acquaintances do, like hanging out and a little casual talk every now and then. And then, for some reason, you notice that she’s flirtier and more teasing than her usual personality would otherwise show.
Your suspicions would be further confirmed if she singles you out from the rest of the males around her. Flirting is an obvious sign that she’s aroused and that she wants your undivided attention. If that’s the case, you should reciprocate her flirting and go get into her game because you know, flirting could only escalate into something better.
#3 She’s touchy and feely – another sign that she’s horny is when her hands travel to places where they usually don’t, and with it comes the distinct blurring of the lines between normal and unwelcome touching. But who are we kidding right? There is no “unwelcome touching” for girls in the male vocabulary. This doesn’t mean that she’ll grab your crotch immediately though. Her touching could be subtle yet a ritualized invitation for you to do the same to her, and she’s telling you that she won’t mind.
The several ways she can do this are by deliberately getting her face or body close to you, hugging, wrapping her arms around your waist or arm, the usual foot rubbing against your legs, or at times, whispering way too close to your ear for comfort.
#4 Your conversations are kinkier than usual – if she’s asking way too personal questions or leaving suggestive remarks in the middle of your conversation, it could be a sign that she’s into you sexually. Verbal teasing is a dead giveaway that she’s horny because females are really notorious for using subtle and indirect signals, meaning that her needs are so urgent that she’s being direct.
She might do this by making sexual double entendres in the middle of an otherwise normal conversation, mention her preferred sexual positions and past sexual encounters, or ask you about your own past sexual experiences – intimate topics that girls wouldn’t normally open up to. The best way to respond is by keeping up with her talk one step back using only the right amount of sexual content to make her hornier.
#5 She’s complimenting how good you look – in a normal situation, this behavior could be passed off as mere flirting, but if she’s sexualizing everything you do and objectifying you, then it’s another story. Being sexually objectified is normally frowned upon, but in every man’s subconscious, it’s a secret fantasy to be chased and hit on by lots of women.
Okay, maybe not that extreme, but women could do the same to the subject of their desire all the same. She could do this by mentioning how well developed your arms, chest, or shoulders are, or by complimenting how your new pants fit those buttocks perfectly, or oftentimes, ask you if you work out often so she can mention how she would want to sud you up and wash her thongs on your well-cut abs.
#6 She’s uneasy in your presence – female arousal comes with various biological mechanisms in her body like increased heart rate and heavier breathing, creating a certain degree of discomfort, and hence, the reason why she says that she feels “hot.”
So let’s say that you’re on a date and she constantly shifts about in her seat while keeping her gaze at you, playing with her hair, or keeps going to the ladies room to freshen up, it could only mean that she’s into you and wants to get the best of your attention.
#7 She flaunts her best assets to you – you’ve seen this before: the untying the hair clip, stooping down when talking to you to let you see her cleavage, wearing that V-neck with a push up bra, yoga pants, or fixing herself up for you even in a casual meet-up could only mean that she’s locked in to you.
If guys are the type to just to wear a shirt, pants, and sneakers, females, especially if she wants to get you, would present herself in her most attractive form in your presence. This means that every detail is carefully considered, from her dress down to her perfume. So appreciate her effort and make a move.
#8 She lets you touch her – this could be described as the dead giveaway prior to the point of no return. Girls, even the most flirty ones, are very sensitive to unwelcome touching. So if you’re the daring type and would want to confirm if she really wants it, and she lets you touch her, then there is no need for further explanation because you know what comes next.
Be careful though, and start easy and carefully. Don’t just slide your hand inside her blouse. Make it more romantic and ritualized in order to build sexual tension for the both of you. Start with your hands around her waist, up to her arms, and caress her neck. Take note of the parts that she likes touched as she guides you further.
Women, even in the state of arousal, would prefer their men to act up and take the lead. The reason why she gives off these signs like a trail of rainbows is to let you know that she’s horny and wants you. So what are you going to do about it?
- Paul Mangay | LovePanky
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